thank you gees. i really needed to hear your words. you are right. it is a power struggle. you give me strength. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!
side note to the atty. part. i called the atty. on last monday and he told me he would send ah a letter. nothing...i call back and talk to the girl that has been handling my case on friday and she said the atty. never mentioned it to her. she was not aware that she needed to send him a letter. she said she would be in the office on saturday and he would dictate it to her. so, i am waiting. i figure veterans day monday. tues. this is weds, surely he should get it today. if not, i will be on the phone again. i think it is terrible that ah can have this much control and power over the money and keep me from getting it.