After my ex-AH got into "recovery" (at least that what he called it back then) he met a girl in his AA group, moved in with her and had a baby.....so I know your pain, but on the other side of the pain, there is peace and my life is so great now. There is no way my life would be this wonderful if I were still with him....I'd still be in constant pain.....if you would like, you can go back and read all the threads I started back in early 2006, but I have to warn you....I was sick, sick, sick! I have a come really far since then....but the one thing I can promise you if that the best thing that ever happened was him leaving me for another A.......