oh krhea, i have faced so many situations like yours, they are so difficult. i can feel your pain.
when i get involved with my daughter's setbacks, i just end up getting hurt. so try to stay out of it as much as possible? it's so hard... i am so sorry. prayers, k
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.