My first husband and I had a working relationship regarding our children. We did not argue or fight or put our children in the middle of our differences. I was the alcoholic mom although my ex drank he could also stop when he wanted to. :caveman
After we both divorced our second spouses, we eventually got back together and did remarry six years ago. I was 61 and he was 64. We have a very good marriage and all of our children were so happy to see us together again. :comfort
I had been sober about fourteen years when we remarried. He did not drink anymore so we do have a sober house even when our drinking kids come home to visit. They either go out to party or go to some of their friends.
kelsh