Originally Posted by
queenteree 
I am here to vent, maybe get suggestions on how to leave, get him out of the house, etc..
Ok then... I was in a pickle. I wanted M to leave and I had no choice but to wait her out. The only way I could get the ball rolling was to file for divorce because efforts to negotiate were... well, waisted on a person active in addiction. Filing for divorce started the clock that even M could not ignore.