I am, by no means, using it to stay stuck in a dangerous circumstance. My kids and grandkids being at my house at times with all this is what is making me know I must take action. I only brought up my daughter and her kids in response to Jazzman's post about "manning up" and why I couldn't work a second job. That is it. I'm not looking for an excuse to stay by any means!!!! I need to go and I know that, it's just a matter of how and when!!!!