Originally Posted by
queenteree 
What I meant was that AH was always in charge of the money (remember, he was sober for over 14 years and WAS a very good manager of money). I never had to worry about it cause all our bills were taken care of.
Okay, so that's the way it was. It's not the way it is now. What are you going to do about the way it is now?
Originally Posted by
queenteree I have to help my daughter, who is a single mom with no child support from her XAH, take care of her kids at night, after my full time job, while she works to support her family!
You don't
have to, you
choose to. It is unhealthy to give to others what we don't have. Why not consider taking care of YOU and waiting to see if there is anything left over to give to others?
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