merlotmamma... yes both our names are on the suv for the loan, registration etc. His pickup truck is in his name only.
Barbara52... I have the application for DSS and will go there today.
Keepingmyjoy... I will heed your advice and begin the journal.
The A is 2 yrs. sober but has never worked any steps. I sense he is still trying to use his 'control' over me, and prior to Alanon it might have worked, but not now. I was proud of myself yesterday when he was raging I didn't back down and did not cry. Now after he left.... whole other story. lolol But he did not see it. Only reason he was here was someone made a purchase offer on the house, which we acccepted by the way. Had to accept it, I cannot afford the mortgage on my social security check. So I also face in 45 days I will be homeless. I have no idea what God's plan for me is, but He sure is giving me a work out on all this.