TG, you may have been on your own for 14 months, but you've been divorced only 2 of them. Anywho, 14 months is not long.
I can't lend much here because I've never been worried about being on my own. I like my own company. I was on my own for many years before meeting AH.
Yes, I know what you mean. There are always ways to get my needs met. Maybe consider this: by not entering into a sexual relationship with someone because you miss that aspect, you will bring a healthier you to the one you eventually have.
Get involved. Great things will happen.
Miss you.