Hi Barb--:sorry
Go back to step one--we are powerless. You could have called him, chased him down, but the is going to do what he wants to do! We are POWERLESS and that is the hardest thing for me to constantly let go. I posted on another thread that I used to think the 12 Steps were worked, learned and life was good again. I was wrong, they are worked over and over, learning something different each time.
I pray this is a bump in the road, and not an entire road reconstruction. Nine months is along time, he knows he messed up and hopefully will get back in the program immediately! You can't make him feel worse than he does. Although I still hope AD feels only one half the pain she has put me through--when I'm the old Susan! Stay strong, get out of the covers and move on w/ life. Set the example you always have, and just love him!!:ghug3
Prayers and understanding,
susan