Exes put exes down and who knows why. Probably because most of us are still hurt or have resentments about the relationship. Who wants to see or hear that their ex is doing great? It is sad, but I know I don't! I would be happy if I never had to hear my exes (any of them) names ever again, and if I hear they are doing good and Im not, I have a pit in my stomach. Not that it is right, and Im not proud of it, but it happens. So, my opinion is, the both of your exes are just jealous that you are trying to better your life and move on, because they obviously aren't doing so good in their own lives....