Originally Posted by
minnie 
We are here because of behaviours. Theirs and ours. I don't give a rat's arse whether drink is involved or not. I am just glad that I am not subject to those behaviours anymore and it is my wish that every person who posts on here realises that they don't have to be either.
That's so true!! But so hard, too!
You know what helped me was realizing how true your quote is...Don't make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option!
The day I read that it was like a lightbulb went off for me.
Tonight I had a text from him that said he wanted back a cd that he left in my car. It isn't one I would listen to but is one that is in there. Anyway, I remembered the night we bought that cd he was so drunk and made me drive him to the store to buy it. I was so ashamed because it was so obvious something was wrong. I had been crying and he was staggering. UGH!
I was never EVER his priority.
Originally Posted by
minnie I am just glad that I am not subject to those behaviours anymore
ME TOO!!!