(((Startingover2)))
We are not married or living together anymore so beyond that there is not much more I can do.
- IMHO you should be GLAD you are not married/living together as you can choose not to be around him. I have an AH who is similar in that he doesnt drink every day but when he does he drinks to oblivion. It took me a long time to realise that this was A as I had this preconcieved idea that A drank pretty much every day. the reality check for me (sorry blabbering about myself) was the are you an alcoholic checklist of which i ticked 10+ when you only need 3+ supposedly to be considered an A.
anyhow getting back on track its hard to distant yourself when you love someone and care about them but you need to make yourself and your children your priority. it sounds like you are already taking steps to that effect and I really hope everything works out for you xx