Originally Posted by
Startingover2 
So, how do the custody laws work? I want 100% custody with visitation to him. How easy is that to get? Is it hard to prove they are alcoholics? I am sure its going to take more than just my word.
Consult with an attorney and find out how to protect yourself and your child. Since you aren't married, it might not be too difficult to severely limit visitation. But that all varies depending on where you live.