i am glad you found us but sorry for your problem.welcome to s.r. you did the right thing by not giving your mom money. as long as we enable them & keep picking them up they will never fall hard enough to get up by themselves. i am sorry for your siblings.i would try to have them removed.they do not need to live like that,they deserve more. read around.read "what addicts do",go to some meetings.keep coming back & let us know how things are.prayers for you & your family.