hi thanks steph and parentrecovers. Its funny if I drink I have a "time" when I drink if that time goes over I lose the desire to drink Hubby used to tell me I couldnt drink so I did if people say no Im not allowed to drink Im worse ( Im a little **** actually) I find that I will drink if Im alone if theres people around me the desire is not as strong. I really hope that this is a truning point for him as hes never had to actually deal with his problems or temper .
I dont know weather Im being unrealistic but prehaps things will get better