ParentRecovers; Tazman; thanks for your advice.
no I'm not drinking. It's almost a month I'm on the wagon now
I think it will just be like a ceremony in church then everybody's going to a restraunt for a meal. Of course there will be alcohol at the restraunt but it's not the drinking that's worrying me, it's more of a social preoccupation I have.
Still, the restraunt they'll be going to is local so, if I were to go, in the worst case hypothesis, if I were to feel uncomfortable I guess I could always go home.