This is my fear, My husbands drinking is getting worse by the day and I was thinking last night about how he cancelled (yet another) couples counceling session because he wants to go to a party AND DRINK. Last night my ******** brother was over for dinner and wasn't there for more than an houre before my husbands friend called and needed to talk (outside the house) My brother was disapionted and sad that my husband would rather go drinking with a friend that visit with him. You know thing have gotten out of hand when even a ******** person can tell who the alcoholic is.
So today it's just a case of my getting the guts to leave and let him take what ever path he chooses but then I think, what if I stay tell he get to the point of not being able to work and then my codependence will realy kick in and I'll be thinking (I can't just kick him out on the curb to die)
It is a hard life we live.
Hugs and I will be praying for you.
D