Originally Posted by
csc 
How do I begin to put the puzzle back together?
How do you forgive the anger?
What I do to help him and me.
Nar Anon meetings.
Welcome to SR.
The best way to help him is to help yourself. The best place to find answers on just how that is done is Nar Anon meetings.
His issues...he needs deal with himself.
Your issues (waiting and thinking you could change things) have answers and those answers do work.