I no longer hang with my drinking buddies. I may talk to them occasionally, but will not do anything with them. A couple have quit drinking and go to meetings. We sort of hang out once in a while. It's just too much of a temptation to go out drinking or using when I'm around them. I need to change my life - to change the things I can, me.
Perhaps, this is just my opinion, you may need to not be with your friend until you get about a month or more time in. If you want/need to talk to her, meet at a meeting together. The last thing you want is a DUI.