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Old 10-06-2007, 06:11 AM
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eaglesgirl
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: Jersey
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my AH has said in the past he would never use this or that....

towards the end of his actively using... I am not sure there wasn't anything that he didn't use... he lost his business, friends, and for a period i was gone as well...

i made boundaries... there was no doubt that I would back down from them... if/when he used again he will leave our home with assistance if neccessary...

i made the boundaries VERY clear... that was almost 10 months ago... he has been actively seeking recovery...

keep the business secured... as for the finances, have him turn it all over to you, as his business partner... it is for the best interest of the company, you, and him....
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