Thanks for your thoughts, shutterbug and best...
I should have said that my current job has me travelling 60% of the time and working long hours when I am at home. Another position could be a more normal 40 hrs per week, but I would have to really be careful and manage my hours closely.
My wife does not like my employer because of personal issues. She believes they take advantage of my codependent tendencies but what employer doesn't???
Also, her behaviour was somewhat embarassing at a recent company party so she feels she cannot be part of my professional life in any way in my current job.
I'll probably go back to a local employer and lose the respect of most of my friends, but so what? My friends are very kind and they'll like me even though they may think I have been railroaded...
At least I hope this is true. :/
But you are so right about being true to God and Family first. I think I missed there. Thanks again for your input.