Old 10-02-2007, 08:03 PM
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SaTiT
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tell her to call her sponsor

Yes, it's understand able that everybody needs time alone to sort things
out. But it's a bit to the extreem if you're not in WW III.
yes establishing a boundary is helpful for both parties..

but there's other people involve...if you're thinking wtf ???

imagine what your child will go through..your child will be asking
wtf ..in his own way and wondering what he/she did wrong.

becuase the adults do things without talking to the child and
the child has no say in any of it.. the child feels hopeless
and guilty

Imagine that...I have write about my childhood and reparent myself.
dose it effects me as being codependent ?...you bet.
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