Luv, I feel the same way. When he messes up and feels so bad the next day. I want to hug him, tell him it will be oK. But of course that is what he wants you to do. So he know the next time he messes up you will be there still...he will not stop until he decides to. You will put up with it till you don't. No one knows how long that will be. Not even you! I feel for you, you are not alone... do something nice for you today!