Originally Posted by
luvmyfam 
When am I going to stop letting myself get my hopes up over this?? My heart cannot take it anymore.
Oh, Luv, I'm so sorry! I know just what you are going through. I just recently divorced my AH and I still find myself getting my hopes up. I told someone the other day that I'm still so surprised everytime he drinks. I guess I want to believe it.
But, what has helped me is remembering that his drinking isn't about me and there isn't anything I can do to stop it. It's about him and therefore, he has to be the one to get help for himself.
I'm so sorry for your pain!
(((((LUV))))))