This was my list from the fourth step plus some others for whom I had no resentments towards, fears of, or any sex conduct issues, but had in fact, harmed in some way, shape or form.
After making the list, I was certainly NOT willing to make amends to them all, most, but not all. This is why guidance is so important, my sponsor suggested the Joe and Charlie method for organizing my list: Three columns: Right Now; Maybe in the future; and never. Then I had to pray for willingness on all of them, and start step nine on the right nows... suffice it to say, after 5 years, I have the willingness on all of them and when I get to the step nine posting, I'll let you know how many I have left to do!
THanks once again! (What is that, 18 cents now?)
Tim