DoingWell, yes, we do go to meetings together. We also go to them apart. We do a pretty good job most of the time supporting each other without "meddling" in the other's program...something I think is very important w/two folks in recovery.
During my short time in Al-Anon a few years ago my sponsor had told me it was a no-no to go to meetings with my xhb (then husband) however back then I really didn't know I had my own problem. Personally I didn't see anything wrong with it, lots of couples went to meetings together. I'm glad you guys are doing good, I imagine it must be rough sometimes trying to stay out of each others business.. LOL