Originally Posted by
MTBChick 
... all I know is I have to continue to work on me not go to the persons blog that will trigger me to want to then go and read my ex's blog and to then keep working on matching my actions to my core inner beliefs and values.
There you go. Sounds to me like you know exactly what you need to do for your own recovery. Stop going to that other blog that triggers you.
You know, they tell alkies that when they get the urge to drink they should pick up the phone and call another person in recovery. Maybe when you get the urge to get back into _your_ drug of choice, which is going to other people blogs that trigger you, or any such behavior that triggers you, just pick up the phone and call another member of al-anon.
works for me
Mike
