Then that is up to you you must feel totally at ease in this relationship, with a true sponcer I think they should be closer than a spouse! You already have doubt in her, and there is no contract just tell her you feel as if she isn't giving you enough time to work your program, she does seem to be a little caught up in hers. Welcome I guess if I was to give advise, which is something I don't do Id say don't give up and keep going back and comming back here, these are powerful resourses......and welcome!