You are so right. Why do I still try and figure him out? Maybe because he keeps telling me over and over again that there is no problem. That I am the problem, not him and his drinking, that if I leave, I will be the home breaker, not him....
He is very good at blaming me and while most of the time, I am at peace with my decision to leave, I still have my moments when doubts creep in and I feel guilty...
Another thing that has become unbrearable to me is the lying. He lies about so many things that I do not believe any word that come out of his mouth.
Thanks for the reply!!
Lucy