To me if you help someone into treatment that is just going to save their marriage, their job, their time out of jail or whatever and they are not truly interested in trying to get clean or sober.....they are wasting space in a place where people are literally dying to get a bed in there.
Now...the old lead a horse to water thing.....again...you can get them in there, but they won't hear until they can hear, or unless they are ready.