Oh Sis, I struggle with this, too.
Sometimes I pray to my HP that they "get what they deserve."
Other times I pray that my HP will "teach them and reach them"
When I'm in a good place, I pray my HP's loving counsel and guidance for all.
And occasionally I pray that my HP will guide me to kick 'em in the shins...
and then I pray for forgiveness...
Love ya
Cats