Hi Kimmy, Sorry about your situation... that is tough. Prison for your father may be the time away he needs to straighten out his life. (Some use the opportunity to change, some just continue doing the same things once they get out.) I'll pray this will be your fathers time to change if he does get time. For me, my AH is currently in prison. I needed this time to work on me and the mess my life had become living with an active addict. Hopefully, this will work out to your brothers advantage if you are able to let him live with you. Just let him know your expectations and house rules up front, so it can be a positive experience for both of you as you deal with the changes if your father goes to prison. Keep reading and posting. There is so much support and encouragement here at SR.