Originally Posted by guyinNC

She does not give a damn about you are your kids. She will tell you what you want to hear to get you off her back and keep up her addiction. She is most likely sleeping around with strange men and blaming you for her problems.

Its time for you to plan your escape. In secret ! Set up a P.O. Box in secret in your own name. Get your own checking account and credit card. Send it to the new P.O. Box. Prepare to cap or close joint credit cards and checking accounts. See a lawyer. Do this this without telling her or anyone else. Document her actions and affairs.

When the time is right.....when you feel you can take no more abuse, you can file for divorce. But you will be prepared.

You need to protect yourself mentally and finacially. For your sake and the kids.