Ann,
You took the words out of my mouth - this step is simply about keeping my side of the street clean. It's so much simpler to review my behavior on a daily basis, and if I was wrong I can see my part in a situation and promptly admit it, and made amends if necessary. "I goofed, I did this and it wasn't ok for me to do that. I'm sorry" This is soooo much easier than allowing things to fester.
HUGS
Cats