As I posted to you in your other thread those who have a problem with the GOD concept have had success in using
Good Orderly Direction when they hear the word GOD
and others use the group as their HP
as in
Group Of Drunks
However, you really cannot
see or search for his higher power,
This is something he needs to do on his own in his own time.
Have you tried Alanon? It can be a big help for you.
Please keep posting and let us know how YOU are doing, we do care.
Love and hugs,