you did the right thing.it will get better but with him it will only get worse. you can not make him go to rehab or make him get clean.he has got to want to. even if he went to rehab it takes a long time to be able to trust them.keep the focus on yourself, find somethings that you have wanted to do & do them.hands off the addict.let them learn to take care of themselves or hit their bottom.i am sorry you are hurting.hugs,