Welcome Lyralee! Glad that you found us! SR is a great place with wonderful people and amazing stories and advice!
LaTeeDa hit it on the head as most times she does that! ACTIONS! This is very important thing to look for!
You did the right thing (it was a CHOICE) and a great one at that! He has choices too and they are his.
As the others stated I too would "Run"
Keep coming back and posting!