Originally Posted by
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Well you know what happened last time... this is my wish but I understand you will do as you want.
Thank you, that's the kind of thing I was looking for.
I realise that I have no control over what she will or won't do, and honestly, I don't even want to try to control her anymore. I want her to stop abusing alcohol because she's realised it's the best thing she could do for herself, but I know I can't make her realise that. She's the only one that can do that.
As for what *I'm* ready to do... I really don't know yet. Logically, it's pretty cut and dried. Emotionally... I'm not ready to sever this relationship, especially over the phone from five states away. Not yet. We'll see how I feel in the morning. In the meantime, no ultimatums.