Thanks Again, it is in my opinion a great pity my wife does not work a programme. She hold the view that that I am the addict, and the source of the problem. Most of the time she is right. I have learnt in recovery I am mostly wrong. Damn piuty, but true.
Part of the conflict we had stems from the spiritual awakening I have had as a result of the 12 step programme. I have greast faith and trust in HP, and believe that my children, small as they are have there own path.
But as my sponsor said to me recently: If this is the kind of problem you are having, you are very lucky, and recovery is working. How true. How quickly I can forget the mess my life and relationship was not long ago.