Another question
Ok, maybe I'm making more out of this than I need to I dobn't know.
Told ya'll that I'm not allowing AH to live with us until he gets help. Several people told me that was a good boundary. That part I agree with.
Now I'm wondering this: he can't live with us but he's living with a friend. Does that not send the message to my son that it's not ok to drink and do drugs at home but it's ok to go live somewhere else where you can do what you want? I feel like I'm sending mixed messages. Or am I over thinking this?