Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
I don't know if I was addicted to the drama or not. I do know that 'proving' I was right and he was wrong gave me some sort of sick satisfaction. Wasn't very satisfying, though. LOL
Looking back, my marriage was always a power struggle. If I could win the fight, I felt like I had the power. Now I know I never did have any power over him. It was my issue with wanting to control......
L
Astro and Rella you seemed to want and crave the fight, too - why? Elizabeth, what about you - did you want it?
GNS....I would have to agree with LaTeeDa.....it was not that I was craving the fight-I was trying to "prove that I was right" was as L said "some sort of sick satisfaction" (I was sick too)
I was in denial of everything! Me, Him, the disease!
It is when we are ready and enough is enough that we help ourselves to see that the issue of "wanting to control" a person who just will not see a thing that you say or do becomes not worth our time, peace or energy!