He can't seem to see that. While I feel I'm doing what is right for me, he certainly doesn't seem to see it that way.
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I believe that you have said ALOT in this statement! If you decide to resume communication with her for whatever reason it should be on your terms-meaning that I would keep it only to what needs to be discussed (if anything) and keep it at a "hello" and 'goodbye" level-
You need to do what is right for you and if that is considered being a "bitch" then so be it, in the end it is what matters to you-take the focus off what he/she thinks and do what you feel is right for you! END OF STORY!