No, actually the person I don't have enought time for is me. I have plenty of time for abf (IMO). I just don't want to spend my lunch hours with him when we have dinner with each other and spend all weekend together.
By the way, I'd like to say that it's fine whenever he feels like getting drunk and checking out of our life on a daily or weekly basis. At least he thinks it is. The truth is I am always here. Day in and day out. At least for now.
Jenny