I see red flags waving all over the place with this man. Here you say how you feel....
I can't pinpoint the feeling I get besides I feel suffocated and controlled
He confuses me sometimes and if I know and can pinpoint it for my own head, I have an easier time letting it go.
Will knowing what to call it make it stop?
Letting go? What about some boundaries on your part?
Read the stickys...the link I gave you is one of them. This is how it starts for alot of people and gradually escalates. I recommend you re-read what you wrote and think of how you would reply if someone else wrote it....like your little sister or niece.
there have been times I've backed down after a huge argument that lasted for days. I somehow admit that he's right and I shouldn't have done something to hurt his feelings when I didn't feel that way at all and it had nothing to do with him to begin with.
Arguments that last for days... backing down just to make it all stop and have some peace...what about you?
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ening-you.html