Thanks guys and yes, I did use this opportunity to tell her that it goes along with the lifestyle. Don't think she is quite ready to grasp it yet. But I did tell her that if she needs to vent to someone, she can call me. When she visited him last night at the hospital he tried to blame her because she is a sl*t, etc. I think that she is getting tired but he holds the keys to the drugs and she is not quite ready to give them up. One thing I have learned from these forums is that it takes a lot for a woman to give up her addict and my daughter is no different except she uses too. She has a lot of the other characteristics such as low self-esteem and codependent tendencies. So there is more here than just her desire for drugs. Hugs, Marle