Hi Zombina,
You're sixteen and realize you may have a problem. That's a great start because when I was sixteen my head stuck so hard in the keg that I didn't know anything. I thought I knew everything. I'd suggest looking for a young people's AA meeting. There are lots of them around and you'll find people your age who can relate. I hope you find your way. If you get sober now... oh man, the possibilities are endless. I hope you dance...
Mike