OMG - I have to agree with all the posts above.....I still havent quite let go of my marriage to my XAH and he is now married to the girl he cheated on me with....hunny it will be the hardest thing you have ever done...but please do it. Let go and let God take care of him. By detaching from his actions and chaos and crisis...you will become strong again and able to cope a day at a time. Like Steve said...go to a few open AA meetings so you can relate to some of their stories. And by all means also go to Alanon...you will find comfort there too...
And oh by the way I happen to be from Beavercreek.....Hey neighbor....I now live in Hillsboro...
Stay Strong Sweetie.
Janit