Thanks for sharing that, Mair.
My sobriety date is 2/21/05. Since that Monday morning life has been a continual journey of discovering who I am and searching for balance in my life. On Feb. 21st of this year I went to my first CoDA meeting and admitted that I was a codependant also.
I know that I'm a good father and I try my hardest to be an understanding and supportive partner to my GF. Everything else I discover one day at a time, and it's all good.