I plan to attend my first Al-Anon meeting this Sunday. There's one in my area that seems to be pretty much tailor-made for me.
I mentioned it to her and she was not thrilled, but for pretty much the same reasons I have issues with what I know of AA. I have problems with the "higher power" idea, for all sorts of reasons. But I think that even if I sort of gloss over that part, there's still a lot I could gain.